After Party
I’ve gotten a lot of e-mails from people wanting to know more about my birthday dinner last week. There really isn’t all that much to tell.
For the most part, it was nice Sunday dinner. Granny and the Attorney took to each other pretty much right off the bat. That was a relief. You always hope that the people you like will like each other, but you you never know.
Especially when one of them nearly insults the other.
As warm, generous, and sweet my grandmother is, she can also speak her mind when she wants to. And when it comes to my cooking, she doesn’t mind telling me me if I missed the mark on something. Not to be mean, just as a comment.
So, it should have not been a complete surprise when, during dessert, she took her first bite of the traditional pound cake and said that it was “a little off.” If I had been a hedgehog, I would have curled into a ball in embarrassment.
Because it wasn’t my pound cake. It was the Attorney’s. He brought it to dinner.
Before she could fill her mouth with more foot and pound cake, I explained as delicately as possible that he made the cake and not me.
She took it in stride and recovered with, “Oh, I see. It’s just a different recipe.”
Equally in stride, the Attorney brushed it off with, “Maybe we could swap sometime.”
After dinner, Granny excused herself. I knew she had worn herself out preparing for company, and needed to lay down for a nap.
So, the Attorney and I cleaned the kitchen and we wrapped up some food for him to take home. Before he left, I took him upstairs to show him my room.
I’m not sure why I did. Nobody but me has been in therefor a long time. I guess I wanted him to see my private space. Kind of like when Superman took Lois Lane to the Fortress of Solitude. Except that, if I remember the movie right, Superman banged Lois there. I’ve don’t think I could do that in Granny’s house. (Although I did let the Attorney “roll the Cuban” for a little bit.)
We laid on the bed and talked a bit. He told me how much he liked Granny and said a few sweet things to me. Then, just as twilight started its way over the mountain, he started for home. Since he was heading west, there would still be daylight by the time he finished his ninety minute drive. Not that it mattered. Just an observation.
I decided to follow granny’s lead and lay down for a bit, too. Not to nap. Just to relax. It’s funny how you don’t realize how tense (good or bad) you can get in situations like that until they are over and your body releases it.
I kicked back and let it all go. Life is good and I felt content. I rolled to one side and I could smell the Attorney on my pillow. Very content.
Thirty-three is going to be a big year, I think. It was for Jesus.
I just hope I make it past Easter.
July 8th, 2008 at 11:08 am
I love how you appreciate the beauty and importance of what I like to call “small wonders”—-sharing the first tender moments in your bedroom; the smell of the Attorney on your pillow; surviving the first minor scuffle between your loved ones; letting your mind and body relax and unwind.
I know the Jesus/Easter reference must be something clever and significant, but I’m sorry to admit that I don’t get it (owing to my one-sided Jewish upbringing!)
July 8th, 2008 at 11:47 am
irisgirl, it’s a TOTALLY clever reference. Jesus was crucified when he was 33, and it was at Easter time.
July 8th, 2008 at 12:01 pm
“Life is good and I felt content” Better words have not been said.
July 8th, 2008 at 1:29 pm
Fantastic story. You’re a lucky man.
July 8th, 2008 at 4:56 pm
Sounds like a wonderful evening, all things being equal. I wish you many more!
July 8th, 2008 at 5:44 pm
I’m grinning from ear to ear!
July 8th, 2008 at 6:56 pm
Thanks, John, for the info!
July 8th, 2008 at 9:31 pm
I do think John Lennon was misquoted when he “said” the Beatles were bigger than Jebus. - I’m sure he meant you.
July 8th, 2008 at 9:49 pm
That made me cry. I’m happy for you T. You more than deserve it.
July 9th, 2008 at 9:59 am
I’d never heard the phrase (or seen the phrase) “roll the Cuban.” As a cigar smoker, it’s gonna be my new favorite phrase. I do want to be sure I’m usisng it appropriately. Is it a euphemism for choking the chicken?
July 9th, 2008 at 9:59 am
There won’t be another Easter for us with you if you continue with the plan. I do so look forward to hearing your ramblings, which they sometimes are, and suppose I’ll just have to get over it. “Roll the Cuban” indeed. Once again, thanks.
July 9th, 2008 at 10:03 am
Woo Hoo! Great post.
July 9th, 2008 at 11:57 am
please explain ‘roll the cuban’….
thanks
July 9th, 2008 at 4:36 pm
I would think rolling the cuban means rolling it back and forth through the trousers.
July 9th, 2008 at 10:42 pm
Gave me a big smile…. also love the “roll the Cuban” reference. Tony I love your stories about Granny and about the Attorney. You are pretty amazing. Thanks
July 9th, 2008 at 10:43 pm
Forgot to say where I reside!!
July 10th, 2008 at 12:18 am
Hey hey! Watch it there. Jesus survived! He lives!
Very sweet post. Yeah I had a recent “smell” thing on my pillow too.
July 10th, 2008 at 12:19 am
I wasn’t reprimanding you, btw.
July 10th, 2008 at 12:20 pm
You will be missed. Maybe, it’s a southern thing but you bring back memories of my aunts and grandmothers. Will we have a group of short stories to look forward to in future after you move into your next phase?