After Party

I’ve gotten a lot of e-mails from people wanting to know more about my birthday dinner last week.  There really isn’t all that much to tell.

For the most part, it was nice Sunday dinner.  Granny and the Attorney took to each other pretty much right off the bat.  That was a relief.  You always hope that the people you like will like each other, but you you never know.

Especially when one of them nearly insults the other.

As warm, generous, and sweet my grandmother is, she can also speak her mind when she wants to.  And when it comes to my cooking, she doesn’t mind telling me me if I missed the mark on something.  Not to be mean, just as a comment.

So, it should have not been a complete surprise when, during dessert,  she took her first bite of the traditional pound cake and said that it was “a little off.”  If I had been a hedgehog, I would have curled into a ball in embarrassment.

Because it wasn’t my pound cake.  It was the Attorney’s.  He brought it to dinner.

Before she could fill  her mouth with more foot and pound cake, I explained as delicately as possible that he made the cake and not me.

She took it in stride and recovered with, “Oh, I see.  It’s just a different recipe.”

Equally in stride, the Attorney brushed it off with, “Maybe we could swap sometime.”

After dinner, Granny excused herself.  I knew she had worn herself out preparing for company, and needed to lay down for a nap.

So, the Attorney and I cleaned the kitchen and we wrapped up some food for him to take home.  Before he left, I took him upstairs to show him my room.

I’m not sure why I did. Nobody but me has been in therefor a long time.  I guess I wanted him to see my private space.  Kind of like when Superman took Lois Lane to the Fortress of Solitude.  Except that, if I remember the movie right, Superman banged Lois there.  I’ve don’t think I could do that in Granny’s house. (Although I did let the Attorney “roll the Cuban” for a little bit.)

We laid on the bed and talked a bit.  He told me how much he liked Granny and said a few sweet things to me.  Then, just as twilight started its way over the mountain, he started for home. Since he was heading west, there would still be daylight by the time he finished his ninety minute drive.  Not that it mattered.  Just an observation.

I decided to follow granny’s lead and lay down for a bit, too.  Not to nap.  Just to relax.  It’s funny how you don’t realize how tense (good or bad) you can get in situations like that until they are over and your body releases it.

I kicked back and let it all go.  Life is good and I felt content.  I rolled to one side and I could smell the Attorney on my pillow.  Very content.

Thirty-three is going to be a big year, I think. It was for Jesus.

I just hope I make it past Easter.

19 Responses to “After Party”

  1. irisgirl Says:

    I love how you appreciate the beauty and importance of what I like to call “small wonders”—-sharing the first tender moments in your bedroom; the smell of the Attorney on your pillow; surviving the first minor scuffle between your loved ones; letting your mind and body relax and unwind.

    I know the Jesus/Easter reference must be something clever and significant, but I’m sorry to admit that I don’t get it (owing to my one-sided Jewish upbringing!)

  2. John Says:

    irisgirl, it’s a TOTALLY clever reference. Jesus was crucified when he was 33, and it was at Easter time. :-)

  3. Alex/California Says:

    “Life is good and I felt content” Better words have not been said.

  4. Drew Says:

    Fantastic story. You’re a lucky man.

  5. greg Says:

    Sounds like a wonderful evening, all things being equal. I wish you many more!

  6. Curtis Says:

    I’m grinning from ear to ear!

  7. irisgirl Says:

    Thanks, John, for the info!

  8. Blobby Says:

    I do think John Lennon was misquoted when he “said” the Beatles were bigger than Jebus. - I’m sure he meant you.

  9. moby Says:

    That made me cry. I’m happy for you T. You more than deserve it.

  10. rayrayj Says:

    I’d never heard the phrase (or seen the phrase) “roll the Cuban.” As a cigar smoker, it’s gonna be my new favorite phrase. I do want to be sure I’m usisng it appropriately. Is it a euphemism for choking the chicken?

  11. Paul from Q Says:

    There won’t be another Easter for us with you if you continue with the plan. I do so look forward to hearing your ramblings, which they sometimes are, and suppose I’ll just have to get over it. “Roll the Cuban” indeed. Once again, thanks.

  12. TonkaManOR Says:

    Woo Hoo! Great post.

  13. Erik Says:

    please explain ‘roll the cuban’….

    thanks

  14. Alex/California Says:

    I would think rolling the cuban means rolling it back and forth through the trousers.

  15. Bob Says:

    Gave me a big smile…. also love the “roll the Cuban” reference. Tony I love your stories about Granny and about the Attorney. You are pretty amazing. Thanks

  16. Bob/San Francisco Says:

    Forgot to say where I reside!!

  17. Jay Says:

    Hey hey! Watch it there. Jesus survived! He lives!

    Very sweet post. Yeah I had a recent “smell” thing on my pillow too.

  18. Jay Says:

    I wasn’t reprimanding you, btw.

  19. James Says:

    You will be missed. Maybe, it’s a southern thing but you bring back memories of my aunts and grandmothers. Will we have a group of short stories to look forward to in future after you move into your next phase?

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