Comments on: Tastes Like Chicken

By: Jimmy

Jimmy — Mon, 28 Nov 2005 18:56:48 +0000

Hey! What’s wrong with Cher!
Just kidding, Tony! Great post. Very thought-provoking. Makes you question your own motivations on why you do things.
Take it easy, buddy! And keep in touch, OK?

By: pette

pette — Sat, 26 Nov 2005 20:58:59 +0000

the first thing u should think about is your job office affairs are not advicable
i think if he is in the closet he finds comfort hunging out with the straight dude maybe it will help him go straight and that not the case
just stay away from this guy

By: Jay

Jay — Sat, 26 Nov 2005 11:29:58 +0000

Wow… you say what a lot of us only think… I love it. Any new developments?

By: thedeliveryguy

thedeliveryguy — Mon, 21 Nov 2005 20:29:52 +0000

You’ve done a terrific job of sorting out your own feelings about the situation. My guess is that it’s very unlikely that he’s gonna start mooning over you again. As closeted as he is, the only kind of guy he’s gonna fall for is a perfectly unattainable straight one — which he seems to have found.

And since having his attention is more about ego for you than anything else, then it’s best to keep him as a j/o fantasy and forget about it. If you ever had him, you would surely spoil him for anyone else!

By: BIG18GUNZ

BIG18GUNZ — Mon, 21 Nov 2005 20:05:20 +0000

Tony,
Just wear tight jeans more often. you’ll get anything and anyone you want. Use your power! …oh…and have a happy thanksgiving!-Rich

By: Dave / higher powered

Dave / higher powered — Sun, 20 Nov 2005 11:34:53 +0000

Good comments, all.
We have all probably been in the same-type situation at some point in our gay lives. I know I have. But you certainly got it right about ego. My mind will tell me anything I want to believe. From that point on, it’s impossible to be really objective.
So yeah, I agree. Just let happen whatever is gonna happen.
But if you and Travis ever go down a lonely dirt road out in the country to share a 12-pack, I can’t wait to read your post on here the next day.

By: Todd

Todd — Sun, 20 Nov 2005 10:05:32 +0000

Hmm let me think about this. I’m not going to sugar coat it. Most of us are drawn to someone that is different, personality wise from our own. Someone we wish we could be more like. (shy people seem to be drawn to extroverts) However, I am not saying that Travis didn’t see you as such. I think there was interest on his part when he shared with you. But, you actually didn’t act on it. Whether physical or just spoken to feed his interest even farther. Like perhaps, innuendo. Matt however probably did, if they are as tight as you say they are, one drunken night I am sure Travis confessed to his buddy Matt. Heck, Matt could have expressed his own interest about thinking “they might be a gay”.

Then there is the shallow reality of it all. Bi curious men seem to be very interested in DICK. Either they want to suck it, be sucked or just play with it. They are fascinated with the thought of another guys dick. I’ve also come to realize that alot of bimen these days are wanting to be bottoms.

Since I watch so much str8 porn to begin with. I am assuming it’s because the great majority of girls doing anal sex these days. That feeds the curiousity of “why do they like it so much? and does it really feel that good?” they are gonna want to find out for themselves.

If he was to ever find out or witness your endowment. I can pretty much say his distance of interest with you will about face. Sounds awful I know. He is all about the physical act at this point to feed his curiousity, he is not about feelings, emotions or cuddling at this stage. After all he is young. I’m not saying go out and flash him your meat though. Sit back watch and when the moment presents itself for whatever it maybe, either communication or physical. I think you’ll know what will be the right thing to do from past encounters with him.

By: Chris

Chris — Sun, 20 Nov 2005 04:44:59 +0000

Be careful with Travis. Not b/c of your job or your reputation or other shit but b/c of you heart. You intuitively know this and you just need someone to remind you so I will. I hope you have a nice Thanksgiving with your Grandma and family.

Take care of your heart, its the Largetony!

By: Jay

Jay — Sat, 19 Nov 2005 20:45:09 +0000

Hi Tony. I would caution you to be careful of developing an emotional dependency with Travis - just don’t dwell too much on what Travis is really up to in his mind. It sounds like he might have one with Matt. It is interesting that you want to be his first gay crush. Matt might have beaten you to it. Please be careful and don’t overthink it. If you want to know more of where this thought process can lead you (i’ve been through and am currently getting out of dealing with it), let me know.

By: moby

moby — Sat, 19 Nov 2005 20:28:47 +0000

Don’t sweat it Tony. Nothing wrong w/your feelings. If anything just proves you are human. I’d be willing to bet you have Travis pegged pretty well. He is obviously struggling w/his identity.