Comments on: Mean Gays http://blog.largetony.com/2005/01/19/mean-gays/ The Ramblings and 'Ritings of a Big-Dicked Country Boy Wed, 03 Dec 2008 23:42:26 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.1 By: Paul http://blog.largetony.com/2005/01/19/mean-gays/#comment-102551 Paul Sat, 11 Oct 2008 17:43:45 +0000 http://largetony.com/tonyblog/?p=49#comment-102551 Yeah, I agree. This is comin waaaaay late, but things don't change that quickly. Ya know, I just do what my mama always told me to do: Stay away from people like that. I also know what ya mean about the guys who look like they've smelt a turd. Pretty stupid-looking actually while they think they're getting the whole world to notice how cute they are. I've seen many guys who are physically attractive but don't realize that look and attitude just kills the effect, ha ha. Here's my solution...fuck 'em all (and I don't mean that in a good way) and laugh your way through life. It's the only way to live :-) Yeah, I agree. This is comin waaaaay late, but things don’t change that quickly. Ya know, I just do what my mama always told me to do: Stay away from people like that.

I also know what ya mean about the guys who look like they’ve smelt a turd. Pretty stupid-looking actually while they think they’re getting the whole world to notice how cute they are. I’ve seen many guys who are physically attractive but don’t realize that look and attitude just kills the effect, ha ha.

Here’s my solution…fuck ‘em all (and I don’t mean that in a good way) and laugh your way through life. It’s the only way to live :-)

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]]> By: Guy http://blog.largetony.com/2005/01/19/mean-gays/#comment-1311 Guy Sat, 16 Jul 2005 23:57:37 +0000 http://largetony.com/tonyblog/?p=49#comment-1311 My thoughts, for what they're worth: There's no such thing as an overall "gay community" despite the media trying to make the world believe that there is such a thing. The only thing we all have in common is an attraction to those with similar plumbing. Gay men don't own the copyright on being snotty & nasty -- as Tony pointed out, look at teenage girls, for one. A certain sub-group of gay men seem to get a charge out of acting like teenage girls. Look at any group, particularly minorities (sexual or otherwise), and you will find those who seek to raise their self-esteem by putting down members of their own group. "At least I'm better than *you*" seems to be the message they're putting out. Too bad they're mistaken. That kind of behaviour is why I stay home with the cat. She has better manners. My thoughts, for what they’re worth:

There’s no such thing as an overall “gay community” despite the media trying to make the world believe that there is such a thing. The only thing we all have in common is an attraction to those with similar plumbing.

Gay men don’t own the copyright on being snotty & nasty — as Tony pointed out, look at teenage girls, for one. A certain sub-group of gay men seem to get a charge out of acting like teenage girls.

Look at any group, particularly minorities (sexual or otherwise), and you will find those who seek to raise their self-esteem by putting down members of their own group. “At least I’m better than *you*” seems to be the message they’re putting out. Too bad they’re mistaken.

That kind of behaviour is why I stay home with the cat. She has better manners.

]]> By: marc http://blog.largetony.com/2005/01/19/mean-gays/#comment-576 marc Tue, 08 Mar 2005 20:32:22 +0000 http://largetony.com/tonyblog/?p=49#comment-576 From my experience, the people doing the commenting and usually the butt of most other people's comments... I think it's more of a defensive mechanism and a sign of low self-esteem... They get it, so when they are in groups they reciprocate. I usually feel sorry for anyone like that, what a waste of time.. BTW - I think you are mighty pretty!! If you get comments in a bar on not being cute enough, would love to see where you go! You can party in my bar anytime... From my experience, the people doing the commenting and usually the butt of most other people’s comments… I think it’s more of a defensive mechanism and a sign of low self-esteem… They get it, so when they are in groups they reciprocate. I usually feel sorry for anyone like that, what a waste of time..

BTW - I think you are mighty pretty!! If you get comments in a bar on not being cute enough, would love to see where you go! You can party in my bar anytime…

]]> By: Len http://blog.largetony.com/2005/01/19/mean-gays/#comment-373 Len Sat, 05 Feb 2005 20:45:20 +0000 http://largetony.com/tonyblog/?p=49#comment-373 I'm reading this entry pretty late but wanted to say that you really hit the nail on the head!!! Being part of the gay community myself, I've witnessed way too much shallowness from a lot of my fellow gays. I'm not perfect either and have always dealt with self-depreciating issues but I've come to realize that I'm pretty handsome myself, in my own way. I'm in good shape for my age (56) and have a nice dick that gets noticed...but I've still had to deal with gay people who can find fault or tee-hee when the next guy doesn't fit in with their picture of perfection. Good observation Tony!! I’m reading this entry pretty late but wanted to say that you really hit the nail on the head!!! Being part of the gay community myself, I’ve witnessed way too much shallowness from a lot of my fellow gays. I’m not perfect either and have always dealt with self-depreciating issues but I’ve come to realize that I’m pretty handsome myself, in my own way. I’m in good shape for my age (56) and have a nice dick that gets noticed…but I’ve still had to deal with gay people who can find fault or tee-hee when the next guy doesn’t fit in with their picture of perfection. Good observation Tony!!

]]> By: moby http://blog.largetony.com/2005/01/19/mean-gays/#comment-354 moby Thu, 03 Feb 2005 21:20:17 +0000 http://largetony.com/tonyblog/?p=49#comment-354 In truth, the trio probably has more insecurity issues than the overweight guy. People who are secure in themselves don't often attack other less fortunate people. I was very skinny as a young adult and would often find myself the butt of said persons who felt I wasn't good enough because I didn't have a muscle bod. I came to realize, it wasn't me they found fault with. They were directing their hatred of themselves at me. Took all the sting out of it after that. Never bothered me since. In truth, the trio probably has more insecurity issues than the overweight guy. People who are secure in themselves don’t often attack other less fortunate people. I was very skinny as a young adult and would often find myself the butt of said persons who felt I wasn’t good enough because I didn’t have a muscle bod. I came to realize, it wasn’t me they found fault with. They were directing their hatred of themselves at me. Took all the sting out of it after that. Never bothered me since.

]]> By: wah http://blog.largetony.com/2005/01/19/mean-gays/#comment-264 wah Thu, 20 Jan 2005 22:41:13 +0000 http://largetony.com/tonyblog/?p=49#comment-264 you'd think they would know how it feels to be ridiculed. maybe they were teens. you’d think they would know how it feels
to be ridiculed. maybe they were teens.

]]> By: Greg http://blog.largetony.com/2005/01/19/mean-gays/#comment-262 Greg Thu, 20 Jan 2005 18:06:24 +0000 http://largetony.com/tonyblog/?p=49#comment-262 It is awful behavior, but I think why it happens so often is that's what we see on TV. Looks at "Will & Grace." Will and Jack are both very catty about how others look, it's a large part of their stereotyped makeup, and that's how most straight people see us. It's also the image that's forced upon us by our own community; look at ads in gay magazines, mostly for dieting, escorts, medical procedures, etc. It's almost as if we were being told "That's what you're supposed to look like and how you're supposed to act. Anything else is wrong." Just my opinion. It is awful behavior, but I think why it happens so often is that’s what we see on TV. Looks at “Will & Grace.” Will and Jack are both very catty about how others look, it’s a large part of their stereotyped makeup, and that’s how most straight people see us. It’s also the image that’s forced upon us by our own community; look at ads in gay magazines, mostly for dieting, escorts, medical procedures, etc. It’s almost as if we were being told “That’s what you’re supposed to look like and how you’re supposed to act. Anything else is wrong.”

Just my opinion.

]]> By: dubitoergosum http://blog.largetony.com/2005/01/19/mean-gays/#comment-260 dubitoergosum Thu, 20 Jan 2005 07:01:41 +0000 http://largetony.com/tonyblog/?p=49#comment-260 mean homos are bad people mean homos are bad people

]]> By: dubitoergosum http://blog.largetony.com/2005/01/19/mean-gays/#comment-259 dubitoergosum Thu, 20 Jan 2005 07:01:03 +0000 http://largetony.com/tonyblog/?p=49#comment-259 mean homos suck mean homos suck

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