Men Are Dogs
I touched on monogamy in my last entry. I’m totally into it. Almost to a fault. For example, there’s someone I am so attracted to that almost can’t stand it. But he’s in a relationship. I feel so strongly about monogamy that I feel like I shouldn’t make a move and must honor their relationship. But I know guys who wouldn’t think twice about diving in the pool.
We all know that monogamy isn’t exactly highly practiced in the gay community. So I started wondering. Is it because there isn’t legalized marriage for homosexuals? Do they feel its okay to play around because there has been no official bonding? Would more gay couples be monogamous if they first paid for a license and fed each other dry white cake?
The answer is no. Promiscuity will exist in the gay community as long as there are men attracted to other men. Lesbians, as far as I know in my limited knowledge of the mysteries girl-on-girl, tend to be monogamous. Certainly more than gay men.
Why? Because women are more driven by their hearts and emotions. Men are more driven by their dicks. Who is it that consumes 98% of the pornography in the world? MEN. Sure, women have things like Playgirl, but I’ll bet women actually DO read the articles, too. Look at the internet. Sex sites are geared almost exclusively toward men. How many lesbian sites have you ever come across? (The K.D. Lang Fan Page and HometDepot.com excluded). It’s not that homosexuals are more promiscuous. It’s that men are. Men don’t get attached. Men always want to know what the next one feels like. Men are always afraid they’re going to miss out on something better. Men are dogs. You get two men together and BLAMMO! It’s on.
Think about it. If women were dogs like men, then straight couples would be doing everybody too. Men, in general are not going to turn down, or miss an opportunity to have sex. Men would do it 24/7 if they could (with just as many people). That’s why God made it so that men need a re-charge while women can have multiple orgasms. He knew men would abuse the skill. If men could have sex as much as they wanted, no work would get done and society would crumble…or we’d be ruled by lesbians. And, ironically (I love irony), women are content to just be held where men would give there left nut to have a nut left (I love puns, too!).
Men are dogs. Dogs are hungry agressive, flesh-consuming, bone-chewing beasts. And so are you.
So next time you put down some gay guy for being a promiscuous slut, remember you’re probably wanting it just as bad (you are a man, after all) and you’re just jealous that he has the nerve to go after it and you’re mad that he’s getting some and you’re not. Cause people who truly believe in monogamy don’t care what people outside of their relationship are doing.
Don’t forget, dogs are also very loyal. Chew on that.
December 6th, 2004 at 8:50 am
Yes, what you say is true about men and monogamy, but it is possible. I have been for many years, (and I think my hubby too?). There is temptation and always will be. That’s what porn is for! I think those who are monogamous, like myself…sort of fall off the radar and you don’t much hear or see us. The ones still “getting alot” are out and visible.
December 14th, 2004 at 1:47 pm
Re: “You get two men together and BLAMMO! It’s on.” I’m in a committed relationship, and I know how hard it is to resist temptation. Men are like dogs, and I’m no exception, but you don’t have to be a slave to your sexual urges either.
If I’m having a fight with the husband, the worst thing I can do is go out to the club because there’s always someone there I’m attracted to, and sex is so easy to find in gay culture.
But that’s too easy. It’s a very simple thing to go out and get sex when you want it. It’s there, and readily available. There is no short supply of hot guys out there. When I was “single” I was bringing home three or four different guys a week. But after awhile it becomes meaningless.
The more difficult thing is to work through your issues with your partner. It’s not as glamorous, but I feel it’s ultimatly more rewarding.